outnumbered by huskies: busy and sugaring

I have not updated in a while because LP has been sick. She is doing much better. When she had a fever, she would start shivering and say, "Mommy and daddy, I'm cold, I'm sugaring." Of course, we laugh when she says it, but sugaring is our new word for shivering. It's funny how a little person can change your whole vocabulary.  A few days ago, she was spinning around in the living room and fell on the ground because she was dizzy. She said, "I'm so busy." She brings so much laughter into our lives. I am so grateful for her.

She can be so sweet, and immediately turn into a hell spawn in the course of a few seconds.  Although this drives me crazy, I adore her personality. I hope that her persistence and stubborness will help her to do fantastic things with her life.  Right now though, I just want to make it across town without her climbing out of her carseat or make it through the grocery store without her throwing a tantrum. I don't think this is too much to ask. She doesn't understand when I tell her that mommy WILL get arrested if she doesn't stay in her carseat. She doesn't respond to bribes in these moments either. Believe me, I have tried. I am just trying to suck up every moment of her being a baby, but at the same time I cannot wait until this time passes. I have actually felt this way since her birth. Since she cried constantly for about 12 weeks, (Chris says it was her whole first year, but I must have blocked it out) I have been trying to savor the sweetness of her being a toddler while hoping that whatever phase she is in will pass at the same time. It's weird really, and maybe normal too. Regardless, it is hard to parent, and whatever feelings I have at this moment about it will probably change tomorrow. I did start reading a book that my friend told me about. It's called "Boundaries with Kids" by Cloud and Townsend. I have read some of the Boundaries series for adults, but had no idea they made a book for parents. It is fantastic so far-especially if your kid is strong willed and persistent. Here is the link in case anyone is interested:   http://www.amazon.com/Boundaries-Kids-Healthy-Choices-Children/dp/0310243157/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1299717056&sr=8-1

P.S. Is it normal for a 2 year old to sneak things in the basket at the store already? This question is rhetorical of course. :) I told LP she couldnt get bubble tape and it mysteriously was in my grocery bag when I got home. Little stinker.